It’s 11.15pm on a Wednesday night and I can’t sleep so here I am sitting up in bed, writing to try and either put myself to sleep, or just distract myself from the frustration of being unable to. This last couple of months have been incredibly stressful for me, and it is in times like … More Why I am grateful for the eternity I’ve spent single
As my time in the country draws to an end, I’ve been pondering what to write about in this week’s update of The Single Sista. I’ve been pretty consistent so far whilst I have been away, and I sure as hell didn’t want to drop the ball in the last innings! So I’ve been … More If you want wining and dining, stop settling for Netflix and Chill.
Today I want to talk about something that really grinds my gears. Frustrates me, makes me mad, makes me sad and makes me feel all the feels in between. And today sistas, this is not a boy problem or something that guys do to us, its worse. It’s something we do to ourselves. I’m … More Public Service Announcement: You Are Enough
Ahhhhhh the “nice guy”. Not be confused with the actual legitimate nice guy, the “nice guy” is something altogether different. What is a “nice guy” I hear you ask? Well….. The “nice guy” is a man or boy who perceives himself a nice guy but tends to only act ‘nice’ for the soul purpose … More Mr “Nice Guy”.
Gather round the campfire friends, because tonight I am going to tell you all a story; the story of Casual Bill. The story of Casual Bill starts as most of my stories on this blog do; with a dating app. This time however the offender was a dating app called Plenty of Fish … More The Tale of Casual Bill
Maybe it’s tinder finally getting to me or maybe it’s just time and loneliness that have made me cynical but I’ve gotten to a point where I can’t help but wonder. Is there anybody out there? Or more specifically, is there anybody out there for me? It becomes almost impossible not to doubt yourself when … More Is there anybody out there?
Disclaimer: I realise I have family who will read this so I just want to put in a warning. I am not crass, nor will I ever be crass, but the following blog will be talking about sex. If you don’t want to know anything about my opinions on sex and the like, well I … More The trouble with being “somewhat” traditional, with a 20-something’s libido.
Ahhhhh, the old singledom clichés, don’t ya just love them? Warms my heart with the firey flames of frustration like you wouldn’t believe. Hooooly dooly my friends, if I had a dollar for every time I had heard one of these gems I could just about retire now I reckon. The good old … More Do you even cliché?
So this post is going to be a little different from what I’ve written so far. Part of me was (still is) hesitant to post this piece because it doesn’t necessarily fit with everything that I have written so far, and I didn’t want people to see the slightly more vulnerable side of me that … More Some days are shitty, and that’s okay too.
Hands up who here has ever been personally victimised by an unsolicited dick pic **waves hands manically in the air** SERIOUSLY WHHHHHHYYYYYY?? The cultural phenomenon of the phallic selfie is a one that honestly baffles me. I get that you dudes like showing off your equipment, trust me, I KNOW; you are just all … More It’s a penis, we get it…..